#1039 - Iliza Shlesinger
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Iliza Shlesinger is a comedian, host, and writer. She was the 2008 winner of NBC's Last Comic Standing and went on to host the dating show Excused and also Separation Anxiety on TBS. Her new book "Girl Logic: The Genius and the Absurdity" is available now on Amazon.
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Feminism and 'Girl Logic' Conversations with Author About Gender Expectations
- The author discusses her book 'Girl Logic', highlighting the absurdity in societal expectations for women.
- She explains the term 'circumlocutious' to describe the complex thought processes of women when making decisions.
- The impact of societal pressure on women's perceptions and choices is elaborated, emphasizing how women navigate conflicting expectations.
Navigating Workplace Dynamics: Insights from a Female Perspective
- The conversation dives into the dynamics of having a female boss versus a male boss, showcasing different societal judgments.
- The author recalls her past job experiences and highlights ongoing biases in workplace interactions.
- A nuanced perspective on gender roles in professional settings is discussed, emphasizing the challenges women face in being taken seriously.
Exploring the Duality of Work and Happiness: Insights from a Corporate Structure Perspective
- Discussion on how corporate structures may limit individual potential and happiness.
- Personal anecdotes about the speaker's enjoyment of their job contrasting with common sentiments of job dissatisfaction.
- An argument against the notion that everyone is meant for greatness, highlighting the importance of recognizing diverse abilities.
Dietary Choices Impacting Mental Sharpness: A Deep Dive into the Ketogenic Lifestyle with Dom D'Augustino
- The speaker shares personal experiences with the ketogenic diet and its effects on energy levels and overall well-being.
- Includes insights from scientist Dom D'Augustino about the benefits of burning clean fuel from diet.
- Discussion on societal perceptions of clean eating and its accessibility, particularly among different socioeconomic groups.
Joe's Hair Dye Debate with the Banana Sugar Girlfriend
- Joe engages in a humorous exchange about hair dye and its purported health risks with a woman he calls the 'banana sugar girlfriend'.
- The conversation escalates as the woman takes offense to Joe's casual comments on sugar in bananas and health implications.
- Joe reflects on how people can be overly sensitive due to their personal struggles, leading to misunderstandings in casual conversations.
Jess Deweck's Impact on Political Discourse and Upending the Trump Administration
- Joe praises Jess Deweck for her influential and sharp tweets that challenge the Trump administration.
- Joe discusses the phenomenon of social media interactions, including the pressures and health impacts of platforms like Twitter.
- The dialogue shifts to identity discussions, including transracialism and the cultural appropriation that accompanies race reshaping.
Sexual Freedom at Senior Living: Aubrey Davidson's Bold Romance
- Aubrey Davidson, 85, found love and adventure in a Bronx nursing home, breaking stereotypes of elderly relationships.
- Nursing homes are evolving, now encouraging sexual activity among seniors rather than prohibiting it.
- The Hebrew Home in Riverdale hosts social events like happy hours and dances to foster connections among residents.
Tensions of Modern Accusations: George Sakai and Society's New Norms
- Discussion on the implications of sexual harassment claims, referencing George Sakai's 1981 incident.
- The contrast in societal reactions to accusations against men versus women, emphasizing feelings of physical threat.
- Debate on the consequences of false allegations within the #MeToo movement and its effect on individuals' careers.
Allie Raisman Confronts Abuse: The Struggles of Vulnerability and Fear
- The conversation highlights Allie Raisman's experience with abuse by her Olympic doctor.
- Discussion on the vulnerability women face in threatening situations with men.
- Personal anecdotes reveal the complicated dynamics of power, fear, and survival in society.
Surviving Everyday Threats: The Reality of Walking as a Woman
- Exploration of the precarious situations women face from men, including street harassment.
- Reflection on personal experiences of potential abuse in public and private spaces.
- Emphasis on the societal norms and behaviors that contribute to women's fearfulness in ordinary interactions.
Kathy's Stalking Nightmare at University of Delaware
- Kathy experiences a troubling incident during a show at the University of Delaware when a man claims to be her cousin.
- After reporting the issue to security, they discover a man trying to gain access to her backstage at a festival in Michigan.
- Following further investigation with the help of the FBI, it is revealed the man has a criminal record and is a threat to her safety.
Kathy Talks Women in Comedy and Cultural Shifts
- Kathy discusses the contemporary struggles women face in the comedy industry, drawing parallels to social movements like Black Lives Matter.
- She reflects on her own experiences of avoidance of harassment due to her early successes in comedy and the respect she gained.
- Kathy urges for accountability among male colleagues and underlines the importance of supporting women in comedy against harassment.
Navigating Comedy and Insecurity: Insights from Sebastian and the Impact of Joe
- Discussion on the psychological effects of receiving negative feedback from fellow comedians like Joe.
- Emphasis on the shared challenges faced by women in comedy and the importance of supporting one another.
- Reflections on personal experiences with hostility in the comedy scene and the quest to maintain positivity in a competitive environment.
Conversations on Comedy Industry Ethics: Perspectives on Harvey Weinstein and Kevin Spacey
- Comparison of gender dynamics in comedy with high-profile cases of sexual misconduct like Harvey Weinstein.
- Exploration of the complexities of communication between men and women in the comedy industry.
- Insight into the evolving landscape of comedy, emphasizing the importance of integrity and mutual support among comedians.
Maureen O'Hara's Struggle Against Hollywood's Sexual Exploitation
- Maureen O'Hara criticizes Hollywood producers for labeling her as a 'cold potato' due to her refusal to engage in sexual advances.
- In 1945, O'Hara describes her frustrations with Hollywood's expectation for female actresses to be submissive and sexually appealing.
- The discussion highlights systemic issues of power dynamics and sexual exploitation in the film industry, linking O'Hara's experiences to contemporary issues.
The Enduring Effects of Predator Culture in Hollywood: From O'Hara to Weinstein
- The conversation shifts to current industry scandals involving figures like Harvey Weinstein, illustrating the ongoing challenges of abuse and power in Hollywood.
- Participants discuss the historical context of figures like Monica Lewinsky and societal attitudes towards women affected by powerful men.
- Insights are provided on how social media has changed the landscape for actors and actresses, reducing dependency on traditional Hollywood structures.
Kevin Spacey's Allegations and the Complexity of Accountability
- Discussion of the power dynamics in Hollywood and their implications for accountability, highlighted by comments on Dave Becky and Louis C.K.
- The conversation explores how individuals in power, such as comedians, may be oblivious to misconduct in their circle.
- References to real-life incidents, including the Vegas shooter, underscore the unpredictable nature of violent behavior.
Bernie Epstein: The Most Armed Man in America and His Peculiar Lifestyle
- Introduction to Bernie Epstein, the 'most armed man in America,' known for his extensive collection of weaponry and eccentricity.
- Discussion of Epstein's wife's tragic death and his detached recounting of it, illustrating a surreal perspective on violence.
- Humorous speculation about Epstein's interactions with mannequins and his lifestyle choices, creating a bizarre yet fascinating character study.
Mule Cum and the Cancellation of Fear Factor: Behind-the-Scenes Revelations
- Discussion of a controversial challenge involving mule cum on the show Fear Factor.
- Reflection on how the shocking content contributed to the show's cancellation.
- Comparison of contestants' preferences between consuming mule cum and urine.
The Stranded Lesbians and Their Dog: Fact or Fiction in High-Seas Survival?
- Examination of a questionable survival story involving two women stranded at sea for five months.
- Skepticism regarding the women's claims and the potential for fabricated details.
- Insights into the dynamics of their relationship and the implications of their situation.
Navigating Career and Family: Insights from Comedian's Experience
- The speaker discusses the challenges of balancing a successful comedy career while considering family life.
- They reflect on the intense love for their children and the surreal experience of parenthood.
- The societal pressure on women to juggle careers, body image, and family responsibilities is questioned.
Comic Reflections on Louis CK's Controversies and Industry Dynamics
- The comedian shares thoughts on Louis CK's controversial past and their limited personal connection to him.
- A discourse on taking a stance regarding friends in the industry who face allegations is presented.
- Discussion centers around the nature of support and the bond between comedians amidst allegations of misconduct within the industry.
Louis C.K. and the Complicit Culture of Male Comics
- Discussion of Louis C.K. and his earlier career in comedy, highlighting a culture of accountability issues among male comedians.
- Exploration of derogatory comments and harassment faced by women in comedy, emphasizing how some male comics view them as insignificant.
- Personal anecdotes about experiences with male comics, showcasing the damaging mindset and behaviors that contribute to a hostile environment for women in the industry.
The Aftermath of Winning 'Last Comic Standing': Navigating the Comedy World
- Reflections on the challenges and pressures faced after winning 'Last Comic Standing'.
- Insights into the dynamics of female comedians and their relationships with male counterparts in the industry.
- Discussion on the importance of self-awareness and support systems in progressing as a female comic post-competition.
Eliza Schlesinger and Mark Marin's Hilarious Exchange at Ray Romano's Charity Event
- Eliza Schlesinger shares a comedic moment with Mark Marin at Ray Romano's charity event.
- Mark advises Eliza to 'steamroll over the crowd' and not wait for applause during her set.
- Eliza discusses the challenges of being a female comic in a male-dominated environment, highlighting her admiration for her colleagues.
Eliza Schlesinger's Upcoming Netflix Special on an Aircraft Carrier
- Eliza announces her fourth Netflix special, set to be filmed on the USS Hornet in February.
- She reflects on her previous performance on the SS Stennis during a USO tour.
- The conversation highlights her comedic journey and the unique setting for her upcoming special.