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#1879 - Sober October 4

NaN minutesEpisode #1879

Ari Shaffir, Tom Segura, and Bert Kreischer are stand-up comics and podcast hosts. Ari is the host of "The Skeptic Tank" podcast. His most recent special, "Ari Shaffir: Double Negative," is available via Netflix. Together, Tom and Bert are the co-hosts of the "2 Bears, 1 Cave" podcast. Tom also co-hosts a podcast with his wife and fellow comedian Christina Pazsitzky, "Your Mom's House," as well as his own Spanish language podcast: "Tom Segura en Español." His new book, "I'd Like to Play Alone, Please: Essays," is available now. Bert hosts his own podcast, "The Bertcast," and can be seen starring on TBS's "The Go-Big Show," and the YouTube cooking program "Somethings Burning."

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Key Takeaways

Women often feel threatened by younger partners due to societal norms.

This highlights the pressures women face regarding youth and attractiveness.

The analogy of dating as investment reveals deeper societal attitudes.

It illustrates how relationships are often viewed through a transactional lens.

The conversation highlights the shifting dynamics in relationships and attraction.

Understanding these dynamics is essential in navigating modern relationships.

Cigar and wine culture reflects deeper social interactions and preferences.

These preferences can shape friendships and social gatherings.

Influence of motivational speakers on personal development and careers.

Understanding these influences can enhance appreciation for the comedy craft.

Episode Timestamps

  • Exploring Gender Dynamics and Aging in Relationships

    • Discussion on how women perceive age differences in relationships.
    • Analogy comparing women's dating strategies to investment types.
    • Insight into societal reactions to women dating younger men.
  • Exploring Relationships, Cigars, and Self-Help Culture

    • Discussion on the complexity of modern relationships and attraction dynamics.
    • Insights into the culture of cigars and wine appreciation.
    • Critique of self-help gurus and their influence on society.
  • Discussion on Anthony Robbins and Comedy Industry Anecdotes

    • Jesse May Paluso shares his early influences in stand-up comedy.
    • Discussion highlights Anthony Robbins' negotiation skills and charismatic personality.
    • A humorous take on Robbins' extravagant lifestyle and interactions with staff.
  • Health and Lifestyle Changes Discussed Amid Humor and Insights

    • The importance of lifestyle changes highlighted through personal health experiences.
    • Humorous anecdotes illustrate the challenges of maintaining fitness and health.
    • Discussions on sauna benefits emphasize health impacts and personal routines.
  • Cold Plunges and Their Impact on Health Discussed

    • Cold plunges are gaining popularity for their health benefits among users.
    • Alcohol consumption and its correlation with dementia were critically analyzed.
    • The podcast featured humorous anecdotes related to personal experiences and celebrities.
  • Humorous Insights on Swimming, Dogs, and Unexpected Discoveries

    • Discussion centers around learning to swim and the fears associated with water.
    • Humorous anecdotes about dogs and their instinctive behaviors are shared.
    • The conversation touches on unique creatures and experiences in Hawaii.
  • Discussion on Spending Habits and Personal Milestones

    • Comedians share humorous insights about spending money on luxury items.
    • Personal stories highlight the significance of milestones in their careers.
    • Conversations touch on the emotional connections to material possessions.
  • Comedians Discuss Comedy's Role and Personal Experiences

    • Comedians share humorous anecdotes about their personal experiences and performances.
    • The impact of live comedy on different audiences is analyzed and appreciated.
    • Discussion includes notable figures in comedy and their influence on the art.
  • Comedy and Personal Growth Explored Through Humor and Experiences

    • The discussion blends humor with personal stories about health and fitness.
    • Withdrawal dreams reveal deep psychological impacts of lifestyle changes.
    • A focus on balance between indulgence and health emerges throughout the conversation.
  • Discussion on Dark Themes and Stand-Up Comedy Evolution

    • The conversation explores the portrayal of dark characters in popular media.
    • Stand-up comedy requires different skills in theaters compared to clubs.
    • Audience interaction enhances the stand-up experience in larger venues.
  • Fitness and Personal Growth Discussed in Casual Banter

    • Discussion on tailored suits highlights personal style and confidence.
    • Participants share their fitness journeys and weight loss challenges.
    • Insights on the importance of discipline and consistency in workout routines.
  • Exploring Athleticism and Performance in Unique Activities

    • The discussion highlights various unconventional athletic activities like archery and pool.
    • Participants share experiences of performance anxiety and overcoming challenges in sports.
    • The conversation emphasizes the significance of focus and mindfulness in achieving success.
  • Exploration of Vision Health and Sobriety Challenges

    • Discussion on personal health challenges, particularly vision and alcohol dependence.
    • Insights into the impact of sobriety on lifestyle and social activities.
    • Reflections on the relationship between physical fitness and mental well-being.
  • Insights on Fitness Techniques and Personal Growth from Comedy

    • Discusses the importance of technique in physical training, especially punching.
    • Highlights personal experiences with fitness and the mental benefits of martial arts.
    • Explores humorous anecdotes from comedy and fitness interactions.
  • Athleticism and Humor in Life's Realities

    • Discussion revolves around the intersection of athleticism and personal experiences.
    • Humor plays a key role in coping with life and performance pressures.
    • The narrative showcases the importance of self-belief and personal storytelling.
  • Ari Shafir Discusses Luxury Travel and Personal Experiences

    • Ari shares insights about his concierge key travel experience with American Airlines.
    • He emphasizes the importance of having something to look forward to in life.
    • The conversation touches on memorable concert experiences and the joy of music.
  • Support and Competition in Comedy: A Complex Landscape

    • The podcast discusses camaraderie and competitiveness among comedians in the industry.
    • Mention of the importance of supporting fellow artists to foster growth.
    • Reflection on how jealousy and bitterness can hinder creative collaboration.
  • Comedians Reflect on Growth and Challenges in Stand-Up

    • Comedians share the importance of compliments in their careers.
    • The struggle of developing new material is highlighted.
    • Upcoming comedians show promise and a unique perspective on stand-up.
  • Comedy Development and Performance Insights from the Podcast

    • Comedians constantly refine their material for optimal audience engagement.
    • Personal habits, like sobriety, influence comedic performance and creativity.
    • Live performances create unique moments that can mesmerize audiences.
  • Chappelle's Impact on Comedy and Live Performances

    • Dave Chappelle's performances draw massive crowds and create memorable experiences.
    • The conversation touches on the significance of community and camaraderie among comedians.
    • Psychedelic experiences are explored, highlighting their personal and social impacts.

People Mentioned

Joe Rogan

Podcast host

Tony Robbins

Self-Help Guru

Liver King

Social Media Personality

Anthony Robbins

Motivational Speaker, Author

Jesse May Paluso

Comedian, Podcaster

Unnamed Speaker

Podcast Host

Oliver Stone

Filmmaker, Director

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Ari Manascaco

Comedian

Ari

Comedian

+2 more

Tom

Comedian

+3 more

Shane Gillis

Comedian

+2 more

Eddie Bravo

Comedian, Martial Artist

Tony

Host

+1 more

Evan Peters

Actor

Jeremy Renner

Actor

Brian Simpson

Comedian, Podcast Host, Comedian

Tony Hans Kim

Comedian

Snoop Dogg

Musician, Media Personality

Big J

Comedian

+1 more

Eddie

Jiu-jitsu instructor

Ari Shafir

Comedian, Podcast Host

Tim

Podcaster, Comedian

+1 more

Louis CK

Comedian

Patrice O'Neal

Comedian

Jim Norton

Comedian

Dave Chappelle

Comedian, Actor

Charlie Murphy

Comedian

Places Mentioned

Hawaii

Location

Comedy Store

Comedy club

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Red Rocks

Concert Venue

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Hollywood Bowl

Concert Venue

Madison Square Garden

Concert Venue

Books Mentioned

Book by Cam Haynes

Cam Haynes

Stan's Book

Stan (last name not provided)

Notable Quotes

"Women constantly threatened youth though. That's they're threatened by."

Discussing women's perceptions of aging and youth in relationships.

"Women like fucking high end IPOs like gate. Right. men penny stocks."

Using investment analogies to describe women's and men's dating preferences.

"Like, something kind knocks ass little bit."

Discussing preferences in cigars and seeking recommendations.

"There's a lot of self-help gurus these days."

Commenting on the prevalence of self-help culture.

"He's got legit charitism."

Describing Anthony Robbins' magnetic personality and appeal.

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