#1672 - Iliza Shlesinger
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Iliza Shlesinger is a comedian, actor, writer, and host of the podcast "Ask Iliza Anything." Her new film, "Good on Paper", premieres June 23 on Netflix.
Episodes with Iliza Shlesinger
Episode Timestamps
Name Troubles and Ancestral Name Changes
- Discussion about the challenges of Eliza Schlesinger's last name
- Anecdotes about misspellings and mispronunciations of the last name
- Exploration of the historical decision behind changing the name at Ellis Island to make it 'less Jewish'
Early Performance Experience and Transition to Stand-up Comedy
- Eliza Schlesinger's initial foray into comedy on a cruise ship, doing monologues
- Transition of her college material into stand-up comedy routines
- The beginning of her stand-up journey in Los Angeles at a bar called Room Five
Building Relationships and Podcasting Journey
- Meeting and becoming friends with Joe Rogan in the early comedy years
- Discussions on podcasting experiences and the evolution of Joe Rogan's podcast
- Embracing autonomy and multiple projects for career sustainability
Artistic Integrity and Comedy Club Environment
- Navigating the challenges of maintaining artistic integrity in entertainment industry
- Contrasting executives' influence vs. artistic expression in creating content
- Reflections on the comedy club atmosphere and the freedom it offers for comedians
Challenges & Responsibilities of Performers in Live Shows
- Discussion about dealing with disruptive audience members during live shows
- Importance of maintaining a quality experience for paying audience members
- Reflection on the unpredictability and necessary precautions in live performance environments
Social Issues and Urban Planning Challenges
- Critique of government handling of homelessness crisis and ineffective solutions
- Debate on the balance between providing housing solutions and maintaining community aesthetics
- Reflection on the complexities of societal issues and the need for compassionate yet practical solutions
The Hollywood Industry and Remote Work
- Discussion on the echelons of success and the possibility of remote work for podcasts and comedy
- Importance of being in Hollywood for certain career aspects like acting
- Challenges and benefits of living in LA and engaging with the industry
Promotional Strategies for Comedians and Podcasters
- Emphasis on the significance of podcasts in promoting stand-up comedy
- Importance of dedicating time and effort to craft both stand-up and podcasts
- The need for continuous practice and putting in hours to achieve success
Exploring Gender-Based Comedy and Audience Dynamics
- Analysis of the humor in men dressing as women compared to women dressing as men in comedy
- Discussion on the vulnerability and comedic perception of men versus women
- Reflecting on societal norms and expectations related to gender-based comedy
Building Relationships and Perception Through Authenticity
- Anecdote about a personal encounter on a plane leading to a developing friendship
- Insights on the importance of authenticity and integrity in relationships and interactions
- Reflections on the value of genuine qualities like intelligence and wit over deceitful appearances
Dealing with Lies and Manipulative Behavior in Relationships
- Narrative of a man who lied about his mother having cancer to gain affection
- Discussion on the emotional toll and vulnerability involved when discovering the manipulation
- Reflection on societal expectations placed on men leading to deceptive behaviors
Societal Influences on Perceptions of Success and Masculinity
- Exploration of societal pressure on men to conform to specific standards of success and presentation
- Observations on the influence of financial status and material possessions on perceived success
- Conversation about the external expectations on men and the impact on authentic self-expression
Discussion on Possessions, Driving Habits, and Superficiality
- Joe Rogan talks about his reluctance to replace his hybrid car despite financial success
- Conversation revolves around the choice of possessions and the environmental impact of driving
- Touches on societal perceptions and the pressure to conform to materialistic standards
Exploration of Cults, Manipulation, and Legal Consequences
- Shift in conversation towards cults, manipulation tactics, and legal repercussions
- Shared anecdotes and comparisons between different cult-like behaviors and their outcomes
- Discussion on the thin line between charismatic leadership, manipulation, and legal accountability
Sociopathic Behavior and Injustices in Relationships
- Discussion about prevalence of sociopathic behavior and how people feel embarrassed to come forward
- Insight into a specific incident where a man tricked others and the lack of sympathy in certain situations
- Exploration of autonomy over one's body and the significance of sexual harassment in different contexts
Murder, Gender Dynamics, and Legal Ramifications
- Comparison of murder rates between men and women and societal perceptions
- Explanation of laws related to sudden passion and denial of affection in Texas
- Humorous anecdotes about suing for denial of affection and legal implications in relationships
Discovery of Deception: Unraveling Lies
- Eliza's mother expressed doubts regarding inconsistencies in the man's claims and background
- Through various encounters and inquiries, discrepancies in the man's stories start to surface
- Eliza eventually confronts the man, leading to the revelation that his entire persona and relationship with her were built on lies
Exposing the Con: Seeking Closure and Revealing the Truth
- After discovering the deception, Eliza seeks closure by connecting with roommates and friends of the man
- Testimonies from acquaintances reveal a pattern of deceit and manipulation in the man's behavior
- Efforts to inform the man's mother about his actions are met with dismissive responses, further solidifying the extent of his deception
The Dropout Podcast and the Fascinating Story of a Con Artist
- Discussion about 'The Dropout' podcast and its connection to Wondery and Apple Podcasts
- Exploration of the story of a woman with a fake voice who became extremely wealthy through deception
- Insights into the legal troubles and impact on people's lives due to faulty rapid blood tests
Food Culture and Legal Matters in Different Countries
- Comparison of food culture between the US and Europe in terms of freshness and presentation
- Reflections on legal restrictions in food industry and its impact on taste experience
- Experiments with dry aging in food and the concept of unique culinary experiences
Conversation About Food Choices and Healthy Eating Habits
- Discussion on ethical considerations of eating smart animals like octopus
- Preference for lentils and homegrown produce in the diet
- Exploration of favorite candies and fruit choices for indulgence
Comedy Industry and Work Ethic
- Recognition of fellow comedian's hard work and hustling mentality
- Comparison of drive-in comedy show concepts and innovative approaches during the pandemic
- Banter about the origin of drive-in comedy shows and good-natured rivalry between comedians
Fan Base Observations and Feedback Management
- Identifying different fan groups based on their appearances at shows
- Discussion on the spectrum of fans and dealing with feedback received, both positive and negative
- Navigating through public comments and distinguishing between genuine corrections and manipulative behavior
Body Image Standards and Simplifying Relationships
- Exploration of high fashion aesthetic and how it affects body image standards for women
- Insight into the preferences of heterosexual men regarding women's appearances and behaviors in relationships
- Encouragement for women to relax on stereotypes and expectations, emphasizing simplicity and self-acceptance
Body Image, Beauty Standards, and Plastic Surgery Trends
- Discussion on body dysmorphia and generational beauty standards, particularly influenced by the media
- Exploration of the impact of diversity and changing perceptions of beauty on women's body shapes
- Critique of societal pressures leading to the normalization of surgically altered bodies and unrealistic beauty standards
Social Media Influence and Cosmetic Procedures
- Analysis of the influence of filters and online standards on beauty perceptions and cosmetic trends
- Observations on the rise of cosmetic procedures, such as Botox, to achieve desired online aesthetic
- Reflections on societal expectations related to aging, transparency about cosmetic procedures, and the pressure to maintain a youthful appearance
Social Media Behavior and Image Projection
- Discussion on the trend of posting images on social media without clear purposes
- Observations on women feeling pressured to add profound captions to photos showing off their bodies
- Humorous examples of incongruent behavior on social media, like quoting Gandhi with revealing photos
Navigating Social Media Struggles and Misconceptions
- Exploration of authenticity in social media presence and the impacts of being perceived as insincere
- Anecdotes highlighting the challenges of dealing with online scrutiny and judgment
- Insights into the complexities of image cultivation on platforms like Instagram and the pressure to maintain a certain persona
Historical Reenactments and Fascination with Battles
- Discussion on historical reenactments and the fascination with battles from different eras
- Anecdotes about participating in events where people dress up in period costumes and carry out timed shooting events
- Exploration of the Civil War and Indian battle reenactments and the oddity of reliving past conflicts
Reflecting on Different Historical Eras
- Conversation about revisiting different historical eras if given the chance
- Reflection on the transformative nature of the sixties in shaping the country and the impact of current events on future perceptions
- Speculation on how future generations might view the current era as one of the most tumultuous periods in the history of the country
Social Media Culture and Cancel Culture Phenomenon
- Discussion on fear and impact of cancel culture in society
- Analysis of the role of social media in promoting mob mentality
- Exploration of the lack of empathy and nuance in public judgments
Stand-up Comedy, Offense, and Public Perception
- Insight into the comedic intention and audience offense in stand-up comedy
- Reflection on the excitement of outrage culture and public shaming
- Consideration of the repercussions of out-of-context statements in the age of social media
Insights into Personal Life and Relationships
- Discussion about the comedian's husband and his personality traits
- Exploration of privacy in marriage and navigating public inquiries
- Anecdote about comedian's first date which involved a stand-up set
Creation of 'Don't Panic Pantry' Cooking Show
- Origins and purpose of the cooking show during the quarantine period
- Efforts to provide valuable information and encourage at-home cooking
- Progression from daily episodes to securing sponsorships and a cookbook deal
Adapting to the Pandemic: Creative Innovations and Personal Growth
- Discussion on adapting to the pandemic conditions and exploring new creative avenues like podcasts and comedy shows over Zoom
- Personal experiences shared regarding utilizing the time during the pandemic for personal growth and creative pursuits
- Emphasis on the importance of finding new paths and opportunities for growth during challenging times
Comedy Shows during Pandemic: Testing Protocols and Challenges
- Description of the meticulous testing procedures implemented for comedy shows during the pandemic
- Discussion on the challenges faced in maintaining safety protocols amidst social gatherings and events
- Insights into the risks associated with social interactions and the importance of responsible behavior in such situations